The Big Fat Konkani Wedding :)

It was almost a month and a half earlier since I had applied for my leaves and getting back to India for a short vacation was just too exciting! Nah, don’t go by the title, I wasn’t going for my wedding πŸ™‚ It was my cousin’s wedding. More than the wedding it was the full family get together along with time being spent with parents and brother that was getting me excited. Finally, April 30th,2015 Β – India did beckon πŸ™‚

The to-do tasks on my cellphone were more and with wedding around, time was quite less in hand. When you have mom around you, then there is nothing to worry about! Forget everything and leave it to her. She knows what is the best. That’s why she is called mom πŸ™‚

Family :)
Family πŸ™‚

The weddings in our Konkani tradition are usually a 3 day thing but with the introductionΒ of Mehendi and Reception, it’s a big 5 days wedding!

Day 1 – Vadap – ItΒ is a very close family gathering wherein the elders who are no more with us are remembered and respected by keeping dhoti for gents and sari for women followed by lunch. Its kind of short ritual which is known as “Vadap”. The next day was the mehendi and hence, all cousins from our side had planned for a small dance program which as usual dint have any preparations done. It was almost after ages we all cousins were meeting together in one place and the happiness was beyond boundaries and by having our lil angel Nadantika( my cousins daughter ) amongst us, the happiness was beyond expression of words.

The practice for the dance started at around 8pm, with all contributing actively towards the same. As the guys side too had planned for quite a few numbers, we girls side dint want to stand back and watch. Humko bhi dikhana tha πŸ˜‰ It was a simple stand and dance with a combination of various songs such as ‘Washing Powder Nirma’, ‘Jaane Ja’, ‘Bhaag dk Bose’ and many more with the final one coming from Ulidavru Kandante movie – The Tiger dance πŸ™‚ the tiger dance is very famous dance in the south part of India where guys gets painted with Tiger stripes and dance to the tunes of various hit numbers as well as the typical tiger beat from the drums. We made sure, the brides dad too was part of this final act of Tiger Dance πŸ™‚

Day 2 – Mehendi Day – was absolutely wonderful with our simple yet effective dance winning us lot of appreciations! Job well done with just over 2hrs practice πŸ™‚ Special thanks to our choreographer @hemukamath for all the in-depth details πŸ™‚ more than anything else, the star performer for the day was Nadantika with her solo for the song – “Radha on the Dance floor”. She was looking absolutely gorgeous with her attire and her steps with expressions just made the day wonderful! I so wanted to post a video of our dance but I am yet to receive a copy of the same. Will happen soon, as IΒ know you are super excited to see my dance πŸ˜›

Stand and Dane :)
Stand and Dane πŸ™‚

Day 3 – Vade Tandul Dhuvche – This day, the whole family is invited wherein water is pulled out from the well and the rice is washed over in order to prepare a different type of vada(no, not the idli sambhar vada πŸ˜‰ ) and is served over to all which is followed by Pooja and sumptuous Konkani lunch πŸ™‚ Basically a women centric ritual where men just have the job of driving women to the destination and back πŸ˜‰ After the noon function and lunch, evening we cousins played out a game called “TABOO” which was just too amazing! Haven’t heard about this game from funskool? is waiting for you πŸ˜› Thanks to Pujan for introducing us to this lovely game. Taboo was followed by ‘Sweet Packing’ πŸ™‚ It was just amazing to have all sit in one place, pulling each others legs and get the job done in a jiffy! More the people more merry it is.

Gorgeous Ladies
Gorgeous Ladies
Sweet Packing!
Sweet Packing!

Day 4 – Wedding day – Just suit up and pose for pics πŸ™‚ That’s all we have to do as most of the work is for bride, the groom and their parents! The selfie stick from flipkart did the trick for me even though I did not get the one I had ordered for but the one I got too was good enough to click some lovely images during the complete ceremony πŸ™‚ the photo booth idea was quite a nice one with various hoardings to hold and pose at! The heat was unbearable due to which, food consumption just went way too low with water being the only saviour. The best part of being at a wedding is that, you get to meet so many friends and family members who you can catch up with at one place! It was indeed a pleasant function with lots of memories to take away from. Good as well as bad πŸ™‚

GentleMen :)
GentleMen πŸ™‚
The Dudes!
The Dudes!
Cousins with the Bride
Cousins with the Bride
Big Family :)
Big Family πŸ™‚
Handsome Hunks
Handsome Hunks
Pretty Mom and Handsome Dad!
Pretty Mom and Handsome Dad!
Bharath Mata Ki Jai :)
Bharath Mata Ki Jai πŸ™‚
With my Angel - Nadantika
With my Angel – Nadantika

Day 5 – Reception – Mangalore was the place of reception. It was a very formal function marking the end to the big wedding. The only though running through out my mind was next day is the last day of my vacations and sooner I will have to get back to work!

After so much fun over a week time with family and coming back now to Singapore, it was just amazing to recollect in this post the super awesome moments I spent back in India. Family is one thing that always is by you any time of the day and any number of times – Just a phone call away! πŸ™‚

Arun and Archana - Happy Married Life.
Arun and Archana – Happy Married Life.

Wishing Arun and Archana a very Happy Married Life πŸ™‚

India until next time πŸ™‚



11 thoughts on “The Big Fat Konkani Wedding :)

  1. Awesome dude… Well, credits go to u too for all the fun.. Good company results in good fun.. Ur presence brought more josh in us… Well written post.. Keep up good work

  2. Mukesh Bavaji its just awesome! !
    reminds me of that one week which we enjoyed together! ! Superb! !

  3. Man I totally love your blog because it “amchigel” centric…. And sorry this is the first article I am reading…. Anyways, I really loved the way you have tld about everything! Had lots of fun with you guys! Dunno hw the time went by so fast! See you guys soon!

  4. Hi Mukesh, I am a Konkani and I loved reading Ur blog. I really loved d bridal sari and wanted to know about the “khaula” on the blouse as to how is it worn. Can I get the brides FB details so that I can contact her. It wud really be of great help. Don’t worry I am not any spam πŸ˜€ And yes nice blog πŸ™‚

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